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receive. The women calling me are in deep pain and cannot
understand what went wrong. The problem is they don’t
understand how men think.
Single men view dating far different than a woman can ever
imagine. Oftentimes it’s just you happen to be in the right
place at the right time when the guy is looking for someone to
date. He isn’t finished dating, you just happen to be the
right flavor of the month. Men have a tendency to be
natural-born one-uppers. If there’s a possibility of upgrading
for something better, they’re going to go for it. No matter
how great the current girlfriend is, men can’t help but wonder
what they might be missing out on. Most guys feel compelled to
put as many relationship conquests under their belts as
possible.
Every guy’s definition of enough is different. Until we grow
up, mark everything off our checklists or have too many
friends convince us that we can't do better than you, the
flight risk is real.
Just because a man likes you a lot isn't a guarantee that it
will evolve into love. And men are surprisingly intuitive when
it comes to figuring out a woman’s potential on this front.
They may enjoy your company, but they know from the beginning
that they don’t want the relationship to go any further. Men
are often looking for “The One.” Unfortunately you may not be
that one.
So why does a man invest any time in a relationship that he
knows will ultimately end? Because most men are able to live
in the moment for a while and chalk it up to a good
experience. But once a woman shows that she is way more into
the man than he is into her, he will dump her out of guilt. A
man knows that she deserves someone who truly loves her and
wants to give her that opportunity to find them.
Men are extremely protective of their emotions. Just like a
woman a man is scared of being hurt. So, if he starts to feel
like he is getting into a situation where he will be destroyed
if you dump him, he might launch a preemptive strike and yank
the plug first. Think about how vulnerable and paranoid you
feel when you're nuts about a guy, and realize that men go
through the same thing with women they really like. A man can
feel it’s better to act like a winner before he turns into a
loser, which is when his natural self-preservation may come
into play. Before the real humiliation and pain hits him like
a plague, ending the relationship seems like a good option.
Are You Being Dumped?
• His cell phone is always off. He might be spending time with
someone he doesn't want you to know about... or he just
doesn't want to make himself available.
• He's reluctant to make plans. If he hems and haws about
committing to anything -- even if it's in the semi-near future
-- he's thinking about making a break for it.
• He's meaner. The passive-aggressive breakup is a guy
standby. Some men intentionally turn into whiners to make sure
you break up with them.
• He's distant. He doesn't want to feel connected to you -- or
he's getting his needs filled somewhere else.
If any of these signs sound familiar you know that he has
decided to move on. Even though you think he’s the only one
you will ever feel these deep emotions with again, trust me,
you will find someone else who does have the same values as
you and wants what you want. It’s just a matter of kissing a
lot of frogs to find the prince. Do not despair and don’t give
up. That’s the key to success in love and all matters of life.
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