Tuesday, January 18, 2011
Is Age an influence when Choosing a Partner?
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Adofoli Edem Frank
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5:00 PM
The question is, "Does age matter when choosing a partner?" and the answer is, "not at all". I've gone through my whole life with the same opinion that age is just a number. A person should have the right to love whomever they choose regardless of age difference. Their are certain aspects where it is helpful to choose a partner closer to your age but it's not required. In fact, many women tend to go for older men because women naturally mature faster than men. No offense to men but that's just the way it is. People who are closer together in age tend to share more interests than those who are farther apart in age. However, two people with a huge age difference could still share the same interests. For example, there is an 8 year age difference between me and my fiance' and we are both video game fanatics.
Important of Trust in Relationship
Posted by
Adofoli Edem Frank
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4:36 PM
Love, Without Trust, Cannot Last
"I don't trust him." "You can't trust her." Broken trust is like broken egg; it can never be put back together again.
The dictionary definition of trust is the "firm reliance on the integrity, ability or character of a person or thing."
We speak about "love" all the time, but love without trust cannot exist. An old Irish saying states, "When mistrust comes in, love goes out."
Trust is a necessary factor in creating a long-term relationship. It is a necessity in marriage. Trust is something that must be earned.
A deep friendship will never form without trust. Each person must believe the other will not intentionally hurt him by using his own vulnerabilities against him; each must feel the other's respect for personal feelings and values; and neither is expected to "push buttons" to intentionally upset the other. This is the "safety factor" in a relationship.
"I don't trust him." "You can't trust her." Broken trust is like broken egg; it can never be put back together again.
The dictionary definition of trust is the "firm reliance on the integrity, ability or character of a person or thing."We speak about "love" all the time, but love without trust cannot exist. An old Irish saying states, "When mistrust comes in, love goes out."
Trust is a necessary factor in creating a long-term relationship. It is a necessity in marriage. Trust is something that must be earned.
A deep friendship will never form without trust. Each person must believe the other will not intentionally hurt him by using his own vulnerabilities against him; each must feel the other's respect for personal feelings and values; and neither is expected to "push buttons" to intentionally upset the other. This is the "safety factor" in a relationship.
Sunday, May 2, 2010
Mistake
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12:35 PM
by Bchgrlblonde
The pain that I went through
The pain that I put you through
and when I told you the truth
of my mistake that I made
all you could say at the end of the day
was "I love you"
I was scared that I was going to lose you
I was in shock when you still said those three little special words
I wonder why God put us together?
What did I do to deserve you?
But at the end, a lightbulb went off and I suddenly realized that God wouldn't put us together if he knew that we wouldn't last
I will always love you, no matter how much life put us through 'cause we will always make it through together
The pain that I went through
The pain that I put you through
and when I told you the truth
of my mistake that I made
all you could say at the end of the day
was "I love you"
I was scared that I was going to lose you
I was in shock when you still said those three little special words
I wonder why God put us together?
What did I do to deserve you?
But at the end, a lightbulb went off and I suddenly realized that God wouldn't put us together if he knew that we wouldn't last
I will always love you, no matter how much life put us through 'cause we will always make it through together
Tuesday, February 23, 2010
Do You Have Time For God?
Posted by
Adofoli Edem Frank
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4:42 AM
Read only if you
have time for God
Let me
tell you, make sure you read all the way to the bottom. I
almost deleted this email but I was blessed when I got to
the end
God, when I
received this e-mail, I thought...
I don't
have time for this... And, this is really inappropriate
during work.
Then, I realized
that this kind of thinking is...... Exactly, what has caused
lot of the problems in our world today.
We
try to keep God in church on Sunday morning...
Maybe, Sunday
night...
And, the
unlikely event of a midweek service..
We
do like to have Him around during sickness....
;
And, of course,
at funerals.
However, we
don't have time, or room, for Him during work or play...
Because.. That's
the part of our lives we think.... We can, and should, handle
on our own.
May
God forgive me for ever thinking...
That... There is
a time or place where..
HE
is not to be FIRST in my life.
We
should always have time to remember all HE has done for us.
If,
You aren't ashamed to do this....
Please follow
the directions.
Jesus said, 'If
you are ashamed of me, I will be ashamed of you before my
Father..'
Not
ashamed?
Pass this on
ONLY IF YOU MEAN IT!!
Yes, I do Love
God...
HE
is my source of existence and Savior..
He
keeps me functioning each and every day. Without Him, I will
be nothing. But, with Christ, HE strengthens me. (Phil 4:13)
This is
the simplest test.
If
You Love God... And, are not ashamed of all the marvelous
things HE has done for you....
Send this to ten
people and the person who sent it to you!
Now do you have the
time to pass it on?
Make sure that
you scroll through to the end.
Easy vs. Hard
Why
is it so hard to tell the truth but Yet so easy to tell a
lie?
Why
are we so sleepy in church but Right when the sermon is over
we suddenly wake up?
Why
is it so easy to delete a Godly e-mail, but yet we forward
all of the nasty ones?
Of
all the free gifts we may receive, Prayer is the very best
one.....
There are no
costs, but wonderful rewards... GOD BLESS!
Notes: Isn't it
funny how simple it is for people to trash God and then
wonder why the world's going to hell.
Isn't it funny
how someone can say 'I believe in God' but still follow
Satan (who, by the way, also 'believes' in God).
Isn't it funny
how you can send a thousand jokes through e-mail and they
spread like wildfire, but when you start sending messages
regarding the Lord, people think twice about sharing?
Isn't it funny
how when you go to forward this message, you will not send
it to many on your address list because you're not sure what
they believe, or what they will think of you for sending it
to them
Isn't it funny
how I can be more worried about what other people think of
me than what God thinks of me.
I
pray, for everyone who sends this to their entire address
book, they will be blessed by God in a way special for them.
And send it
back to the person who sent it, to let them know that indeed
it was sent out to many more.
Friday, December 11, 2009
How to Achieve an Bewitching Dating Profile
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1:40 AM
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To get the desirable results from online dating or matchmaking websites you require to score a perfect profile. For that you should be someone knowledge of most chief aspects of a dating Profile. Once you are alive with them, you can egests your profile.
Sunday, November 29, 2009
Battlefield -Jordin Sparks
Posted by
Adofoli Edem Frank
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7:18 AM
"Battlefield"
[Wayne Wilkins, Ryan Tedder, Louis Biancaniello, Sam Watters]
Don't try to explain your mind
I know what's happening here
One minute, it's love
And, suddenly, it's like a battlefield
One word turns into a
Why is it the smallest things that tear us down
My world's nothing when you're gone
I'm out here without a shield - can't go back, now
Both hands tied behind my back for nothing, oh, no
These times when we climb so fast to fall, again
Why we gotta fall for it, now...
Chorus:
I never meant to start a war
You know, I never wanna hurt you
Don't even know we're fighting for
Why does love always feel like a battlefield, a battlefield, a battlefield
Why does love always feel like a battlefield, a battlefield, a battlefield
Why does love always feel like
Can't swallow our pride
Neither of us wanna raise that flag, mmm
If we can't surrender
Then, we're both gonna lose we have, oh, no
Both hands tied behind my back for nothing (nothing), oh, no
These times when we climb so fast to fall, again
I don't wanna fall for it, now...
Chorus:
I never meant to start a war
You know, I never wanna hurt you
Don't even know we're fighting for
Why does love always feel like a battlefield, a battlefield, a battlefield
Why does love always feel like a battlefield, a battlefield, a battlefield
Better go and get your armor (get your armor), get your armor (get your armor)
I guess you better go and get your armor (get your armor), get your armor (get your armor)
I guess you better go and get your
We could pretend that we are friends, tonight (oh)
And, in the morning, we wake up, and we'd be alright
'Cause, baby, we don't have to fight
And I don't want this love to feel like a battlefield, a battlefield, a battlefield
Why does love always feel like a battlefield, a battlefield, a battlefield
I guess you better go and get your armor...
Chorus:
I never meant to start a war
You know, I never wanna hurt you
Don't even know we're fighting for
Why does love always feel like a battlefield, a battlefield, a battlefield
Why does love always feel like a battlefield, a battlefield, a battlefield
I guess you better go and get your armor (get your armor), get your armor (get your armor)
I guess you better go and get your armor (get your armor), get your armor (get your armor)
Why does love always feel like (oh, oh)
Why does love always feel like a battlefield, a battlefield
I never meant to start a war
Don't even know what we're fighting for
I never meant to start a war
Don't even know what we're fighting for..
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Broken Hearted Girl -Beyonce
Posted by
Adofoli Edem Frank
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7:07 AM
***LYRICS***
Youre everything I thought you never were
And nothing like I thought you couldve been
But still you live inside of me
So tell me how is that?
Youre the only one I wish I could forget
The only one Id love to not forgive
And though you break my heart, youre the only one
And though there are times when I hate you
Cause I cant erase
The times that you hurt me
And put tears on my face
And even now while I hate you
It pains me to say
I know Ill be there at the end of the day
I dont wanna be without you babe
I dont want a broken heart
Dont wanna take a breath with out you babe
I dont wanna play that part
I know that I love you
But let me just say
I dont want to love you in no kind of way no no
I dont want a broken heart
And I dont wanna play the broken-hearted girlNo...No
No broken-hearted girl
Im no broken-hearted girl
Something that I feel I need to say
But up to now Ive always been afraid
That you would never come around
And still I want to put this out
You say youve got the most respect for me
But sometimes I feel youre not deserving me
And still youre in my heart
But youre the only one and yes
There are times when I hate you
But I dont complain
Cause Ive been afraid that you would've walk away
Oh but now I dont hate you
Im happy to say
That I will be there at the end of the day
I dont wanna be without you babe
I dont want a broken heart
Dont wanna take breath with out you babe
I dont wanna play that part
I know that I love you
But let me just say
I dont want to love you in no kind of way no no
I dont want a broken heart
And I dont wanna play the broken-hearted girl...NoNo
No broken-hearted girl
Now Im at a place I thought Id never beOooo
Im living in a world thats all about you and meyeah
Ain't gotta be afraid my broken heart is free
To spread my wings and fly away
Away With you
yeah yeah yeah, ohh ohh ohh
I dont wanna be without my baby
I dont wanna a broken heart
Dont want to take a breath with out my baby
I dont wanna play that part
I know that I love you
But let me just say
I dont want to love you in no kind of way..No..No
I dont want a broken heart
I dont wanna play the broken-hearted girl..No..No..
No broken-hearted girl
Broken-hearted girl Nono
No broken-hearted girl
No broken-hearted girl
Saturday, November 28, 2009
Chris Brown - Crawl
Posted by
Adofoli Edem Frank
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1:48 AM
Crawl Lyrics
[Verse 1]
Everybody see's it's you
I'm the one that lost the view
Everybody says we're through
I hope you haven't said it too
So where
Do we go from here
With all this fear in our eyes
And where
Can love take us now
We've been so far down
We can still touch the sky
[Chorus]
If we crawl
Till we can walk again
Then we'll run
Until we're strong enough to jump
Then we'll fly
Until there is no end
So lets crawl, crawl, crawl
Back to love, Yeah
Back to love, Yeah
[Verse 2]
Why did I change the pace
Hearts were never meant to race
I always felt the need for space
But now I can't reach your face
So where
Are you standing now
Are you in the crowd of my faults
Love, can you see my hand?
I need one more chance
We can still have it all
[Chorus]
If we crawl(if we crawl)
Till we can walk again
Then we'll run (then we'll run)
Until we're strong enough to jump
Then we'll fly
Until there is no end
So lets crawl, crawl, crawl
http://www.elyricsworld.com/crawl_lyrics_chris_brown.html
Back to love, Yeah
Back to love, yeaaah
[Bridge]
Everybody see's it's you
Well I never wanna lose that view
[Chorus]
So we'll crawl (if we crawl)
Till we can walk again
Then we'll run
Until we're strong enough to jump
Then we'll fly
Until there is no end
So lets crawl, crawl, crawl
So we'll crawl (ooh)
Till we can walk again (till we can walk again)
Then we'll run (we'll run)
Until we're strong enough to jump (until we're strong enough to jump)
Then we'll fly (then we'll fly)
Until there is no end
So let's crawl, let's crawl, lets crawl
Back to love
Back to love yeah
Back to love
[Verse 1]
Everybody see's it's you
I'm the one that lost the view
Everybody says we're through
I hope you haven't said it too
So where
Do we go from here
With all this fear in our eyes
And where
Can love take us now
We've been so far down
We can still touch the sky
[Chorus]
If we crawl
Till we can walk again
Then we'll run
Until we're strong enough to jump
Then we'll fly
Until there is no end
So lets crawl, crawl, crawl
Back to love, Yeah
Back to love, Yeah
[Verse 2]
Why did I change the pace
Hearts were never meant to race
I always felt the need for space
But now I can't reach your face
So where
Are you standing now
Are you in the crowd of my faults
Love, can you see my hand?
I need one more chance
We can still have it all
[Chorus]
If we crawl(if we crawl)
Till we can walk again
Then we'll run (then we'll run)
Until we're strong enough to jump
Then we'll fly
Until there is no end
So lets crawl, crawl, crawl
http://www.elyricsworld.com/crawl_lyrics_chris_brown.html
Back to love, Yeah
Back to love, yeaaah
[Bridge]
Everybody see's it's you
Well I never wanna lose that view
[Chorus]
So we'll crawl (if we crawl)
Till we can walk again
Then we'll run
Until we're strong enough to jump
Then we'll fly
Until there is no end
So lets crawl, crawl, crawl
So we'll crawl (ooh)
Till we can walk again (till we can walk again)
Then we'll run (we'll run)
Until we're strong enough to jump (until we're strong enough to jump)
Then we'll fly (then we'll fly)
Until there is no end
So let's crawl, let's crawl, lets crawl
Back to love
Back to love yeah
Back to love
Tuesday, November 17, 2009
I Miss You
Posted by
Adofoli Edem Frank
at
6:51 AM
by nathynsangel
Even though you are so far away,
I can feel you wipe my tears away sometimes.
I can hear your voice tell me everything will be ok and that we'll get through this together.
I can feel you holding me at night.
I can hear you tell me you love me.
I can feel all of this and so much more.
You're the one that i keep in my heart
at all times.
I miss you like a fat kid loves cake.
I can't wait till you're home!!
Even though you are so far away,
I can feel you wipe my tears away sometimes.
I can hear your voice tell me everything will be ok and that we'll get through this together.
I can feel you holding me at night.
I can hear you tell me you love me.
I can feel all of this and so much more.
You're the one that i keep in my heart
at all times.
I miss you like a fat kid loves cake.
I can't wait till you're home!!
Saturday, November 7, 2009
5 Ways to Feel More Beautiful and Attract Love
Posted by
Adofoli Edem Frank
at
8:19 AM
Have you ever felt ugly or unattractive? Sometimes people can
feel that way if they put on a few pounds, if someone rejects
them or after they acted out in anger.
No matter what society determines as being attractive, I
believe everyone is beautiful in their own way. They key is
that you must feel good inside to really express that
beautiful self out in the world. Here are some simple ways to
access authentic beauty in the world and in your heart:
Top 5 Mistakes Women Make in Dating
Posted by
Adofoli Edem Frank
at
7:45 AM
and asks herself, “Why is everyone else finding a match but
me?” She gets advice from her coupled girlfriends and is
assured that she is desirable and there must be something
wrong with them. Or, perhaps they have an intervention
confronting her with the fact that she is just too picky. If
this sounds like you, check out these top five mistakes women
make when searching for Mr. Right.
Healing A Broken Heart
Posted by
Adofoli Edem Frank
at
6:51 AM
Healing a broken heart takes time. You can’t bounce back as your old self the next morning or even a few months after that. However, it can be done. And it will happen to you in time as well.
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